We Need Some Time Apart 

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#261 Life in close quarters can be full on when you're carting your life around on a boat together, so we're spending a bit of time apart as we head back westwards along southern Portugal.
We want to take the varnish off and speak our mind about some issues that we think are important, and give you guys a sense of some aspects of our lives away from the camera.
Philosophize This! Podcast By Stephen West
Happiness Hypothesis Jonathan Haidght
Psychology Podcast - Scott Barry Kaufman
Happiness Lab
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00:00 Hollow Coves - Heatwave - open.spotify.com/artist/7IAFAOtc9kTYNTizhLSWM6?si=Qy2VBj1MT2exbHD77vjECQ
02:13 Good Lee & Andrew Rothschild - 24 - AndrewRothschilds/
05:58 Honey Hounds - Easy Like The Breeze - open.spotify.com/artist/2gBYe3dJe0NroE6tej4XnP
09:02 Brother Mane - Epiphany - open.spotify.com/artist/2vC1DrTfUraHejWRM6e9Bm?si=CCzX4xs6SH6tHFKH5PoPHQ
11:08 Yellow The Sun - Song For You - open.spotify.com/track/40ucfPqeCYTwSUwI9VwD9M?si=EkDlqItCSPyV2yKbLqO2Gg
14:17 Bill Beaumont - For The Birds Outside My Window - billbeaumont.bandcamp.com
17:19 Lachlan Ross - City Lights - Lachlanrossvisuals.com

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Edited by Andrew Dickerson
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Jennifer Lopesi
Jennifer Lopesi Күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this with us. These moments and challenges you face are equally as important to share as well. It definitely helps others to see the reality. I have always marveled at how well both of you seem to cope with the day-to-day living, running a boat, a KZvid channel and a family. But this is a welcome reminder that we're all human and life isn't always smooth sailing (pun not intended). I've had times in my life where I have seemingly had everything going for me (from an outside perspective) and for some reason, I wasn't as happy during that time as I 'should' have been. I used to struggle with anxiety and depression a lot and I had to make a conscious effort to really stop and be present as much as possible. I've learned how to manage it a lot better now. As you know the highs and lows are normal and we need the contrast to see things clearly and hone in on what it is we really want. Everyone deals with their down times differently but what helped me was finally letting go of any labels I put on myself that I identified with. I was creating a lot of pressure on myself for trying to maintain an unrealistic version of who I thought others wanted me to be. For example, "I'm an actor". I gave it all up during a time I had really gained momentum because it simply wasn't fulfilling me like it used to. And it was honestly the best decision I have ever made. Once I let go of that identification of being an actor it opened up a whole new world for me and it felt extremely liberating. This started a domino effect in all areas of my life and I finally began living life on my terms again. Anyway, I slightly digressed... I don't know if this is relevant to you but I'm sharing this for others as well in case someone can take anything from part of my story too. I'm not sure what you are personally experiencing at the moment but you have the self-awareness, which, in my opinion is half the battle won. I love listening to Tom Bilyeu's Channel 'Impact Theory' and 'Health Theory'. He interviews many people from all walks of life and listening to them has definitely helped me learn a lot about my state of mind and well being. I highly recommend. Thanks again for sharing. Take care and do you :)
Mitchell Backhouse
Mitchell Backhouse Күн бұрын
Little Lenny so clueless when he keeps dropping his cutlery
Ronz Nine
Ronz Nine 2 күн бұрын
It makes sense at the time. Stay apart for awhile, everyone comes back healthier, etc, etc. But those days apart, and everything that could have been in them, are gone forever. Hopefully, burning them makes the future better. Hopefully. My wife of almost 10 years fell ill one Thanksgiving and was dead at 49 by the next Thanksgiving. Every day, I think what else we could've done together, where we could have gone, things we could've seen had we had any idea our time together had months or weeks or hours left in it. Just saying. Be careful tossing away time together. You just never know. Sometimes, when it ends, it ends suddenly. Hopefully, that never comes to pass for you--but if it does, you won't value all that time apart even a little. Trust me on that.
Annabel 5 күн бұрын
It can't be easy to be so open to the public, I find it difficult to just be open to my partner. So I honestly take my hat off to you as a couple and as a little family. Thank you for sharing what you've shared over the years and good luck in your future endeavours. X
Arkman 5 күн бұрын
When you open the door and invite the world to become family, the tension only increases. Nothing beats anonymity and the ability to say I hate you , without having to explain it to the neighbors and friends. Of course in a good marriage , a women is secure in saying this because the good husband just wants the storm to end and get back to normal.
Turtle Pwr
Turtle Pwr 6 күн бұрын
You both are beautiful souls. Thank you for inspiring me and sharing all facets of your story. I’m grateful for all you do for us beyond the screen.
Aaron Bethard
Aaron Bethard 6 күн бұрын
You’re beautiful and he’s an awesome dude! You’re lucky to have each other!!!!!
Emily REY
Emily REY 10 күн бұрын
This video helped me a lot with some personal problems 😔❤️❤️
Jillian King
Jillian King 10 күн бұрын
Correction ......Maslow's Hierachy of Needs.... I work with young children and families and am not usually surprised when many end in divorce ..... All the usual things when both parents are working full-time with a young family, and don't have paid help or strong family support. Something usually gives as a result of the pressures they place on themselves or necessity. It's a flawed notion that 'women (or at least the primary care giver) can have it all' i.e. family, career while children are very young) The women that do manage to combine a young family with the demands of working career almost always have hired help to do the food shopping, cooking, cleaning, child caring/rearing etc. You both seem to be doing an excellent job with Lenny :)
lordabhi 10 күн бұрын
Man - You guys are so special together. I am sure every thing will work out. So sad..
Brent Jones
Brent Jones 11 күн бұрын
Well done for sharing
Emilee Gomez
Emilee Gomez 11 күн бұрын
Jesus loves each and every one of you!
Adventure Encounters
Adventure Encounters 12 күн бұрын
Gary Mingy
Gary Mingy 12 күн бұрын
Press on comrade !
Peter. Hatch
Peter. Hatch 12 күн бұрын
Get some strange ! Bro and when the second child comes your life is over ! Eating is not cheating
Trista Gladeau
Trista Gladeau 12 күн бұрын
Trista Gladeau
Trista Gladeau 12 күн бұрын
Nick Twaddell
Nick Twaddell 12 күн бұрын
real talk!
T.N. 14 күн бұрын
Love this Riley and Elayna. You're incredible 'influencers'. You deserve that title!
Mike Stumpgrinding
Mike Stumpgrinding 14 күн бұрын
Who ever craps there pants is in charge . Wisdom
Kirtan Dreamrezzer
Kirtan Dreamrezzer 14 күн бұрын
Aloha, love & blessings, thought I'd share a beautiful quote: “Let there be spaces in your togetherness, And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls. Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup. Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf. Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone, Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music. Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping. For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts. And stand together, yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other's shadow.” ― Khalil Gibran, The Prophet
Maria Street
Maria Street 14 күн бұрын
I've known about you guys for a while but confess I haven't watched any of your videos until now. And wow, what have I been missing? For all of you La Vagabonde fans from day 1, congrats :). I'm working my way backward so I can stay current! Your latest videos have really pinpointed where I feel like I am at in my own life. Riley's line "I haven't been as happy as I should be lately" has haunted me for the past few weeks since I've watched this. So first off, Riley. I really thank you for sharing this with us. I've gotten the impression that sharing what "boat life" is really like is important to you. I think you've done a great job of this lately and everyone seems to be in full support, keep it up! Second, I have started to listen to the Happiness Lab. I'm also new to the podcast world. Not for lack of interest. More for lack of recommendations. So when someone suggests a podcast recommendation I tend to pounce on it. After listening to most of the first season I keep wondering about what La Vagabonde's experience has been with this. Did you find it helpful? I am curious if you have any suggestions on how to take the content further? How has what you have learned in the Happiness Lab influence how you spend your day to day lives? Really glad I picked up watching you when I did. Thanks for inspiring a sense of adventure in all of us!
Diana Lovelady
Diana Lovelady 15 күн бұрын
Love u guys and prayers for happiness and fulfillment for you guys
Mark Vanderkam
Mark Vanderkam 17 күн бұрын
Why not move back to Australia and run a sailing charter business which will go gangbusters with all your fame. You could also teach courses on how to run a KZvid channel. Then you can have a house on land, connections with friends, and your child can be surrounded by cousins, grandparents, other kids at daycare, etc.? Do you really want to deny your child those connections and opportunities so you can run a reality TV channel? I don't mean to be harsh and I am sure you have thought of all the options. You three are an inspiration and have touched so many lives.
James Holt
James Holt 18 күн бұрын
I’m gutted for you, my wife and I did the same thing years back, my son and I have never seen her since. 😕
Mauro Fomiatti
Mauro Fomiatti 18 күн бұрын
Suave, mari magno turbantibus aequora ventis, e terra magnum alterius spectare laborem; non quia vexari quemquamst iucunda voluptas, sed quibus ipse malis careas quia cernere suave est. Suave etiam belli certamina magna tueri per campos instructa tua sine parte pericli. Sed nil dulcius est, bene quam munita tenere edita doctrina sapientum templa serena, despicere unde queas alios passimque videre errare atque viam palantis quaerere vitae , certare ingenio, contendere nobilitate, noctes atque dies niti praestante labore ad summas emergere opes rerumque potiri. O miseras hominum mentes, o pectora caeca! Qualibus in tenebris vitae quantisque periclis degitur hoc aevi quodcumquest! Nonne videre nil aliud sibi naturam latrare, nisi utqui corpore seiunctus dolor absit, mente fruatur iucundo sensu cura semota metuque Bye
Grant Botha
Grant Botha 18 күн бұрын
Absolutely amazing episode! I think one of your best! Riley a thanks especially for sharing as a man your emotional challenges! Elayna we so appreciate your honesty and amazing bravery through your own anxieties! I read a book a couple of months ago by Dr Wayne Dyer, he speaks about Divine Synchronicity- it’s when things just happen or show up when we need it most! I have watched 2 episodes where you guys spoke about being real and that our emotions just happen in-spite of our ‘perfect surroundings’. At the time I really needed to hear this. So often we say words like ... oh how I wish could just sail off into the sunset ... with no worries... Thanks for your amazing input into our lives. Truly you guys are amazing! Love to you from us Grant and Laraine Botha South Africa
funnyglow 19 күн бұрын
Beauty the scenery is so beautiful and stunning.Very enjoyable! Reminds me of my trips where I take the good music like the Guns N Roses, Imagine Draongs or the Delta Parole and then enjoy the powerful feeling of the sea. ¡vamos!
Roxana Popescu
Roxana Popescu 19 күн бұрын
Love your videos! So beautiful
DaNimalLecToR 19 күн бұрын
Another thing too, just from a man to man perspective dont get yah self twisted over resenting your children when there at that age , naturally you love them but it's also very natural to kinda not like them too , they are hard work , they cant talk , they just cry to comunicaten , and its handy to leave it up to mum at that age cause they like her better, for comfort etc . Mums probably buggered too When he starts to become a little older look out the real fun begins and that's when the real best mate relationships start and yourself and mum grow another leg ,
DaNimalLecToR 19 күн бұрын
Take a break from the you tube br0 Mum needs a break from the bubz too , And all woman need there mums or sister or aunts for support with the young fella
David Robertson
David Robertson 19 күн бұрын
I agree with Hollie. Mom needs time alone.
Michael Livingston
Michael Livingston 19 күн бұрын
It would be more shocking if the two of you always pretended things are going great. It's normal, but there's going to be a need for space. Momma needs her time with her friends and without them, but certainly needs to be given time without Lenny. Children are attention seekers and energy grabbers. We had four. The two of you need someone on land for a day or so to watch over your child while you get some time together. Life has it's ups and downs, I wish the both of you the best.
Lord Killa90
Lord Killa90 19 күн бұрын
A problem for me in many relationships is that I'm introverted. It's not that I don't like you it's that when I'm alone I recharge. I enjoy peace and solidarity but many don't understand it and think I'm just being un caring.
499PUCK 19 күн бұрын
Caveriao is a great spot. Plenty of bars and restaurants to pick from. Spent a few vacations there.
Jason Kellett
Jason Kellett 20 күн бұрын
Its a floating house navigating the ups and downs of life..just like us all, thankyou for the connection!
Mario Coelho Vasco
Mario Coelho Vasco 20 күн бұрын
Love you Guys 🥰⚡
Kee-pyor Myndopen
Kee-pyor Myndopen 21 күн бұрын
God, Riley would look so good in drag. Those eyes.
Cory 21 күн бұрын
Check out James 1: 2-3. 😊
Hedonist Euphony
Hedonist Euphony 21 күн бұрын
14:41 😘❤️L- Tyrosine for dépression
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